Monday, December 29, 2008 @ 1:16 PM
When something major happen to one...
there is not much for the ppl surroundin him/her to do to change the situation...
the ONLY one that can change it, is the person who experiences it...
Ppl around can only give advices, encouragement & lend a listening ear..
To change the situation depends entirely on how the person in the situation, views & reacts...
Ppl around can only help the person in difficulties to vent out his/her feelings...
However, the choice of ventin feelings out depends entirely on the person who experiences difficulty...
So, in conclusion, to turn everything ard...
The person who involves with everything is the KEY to solve everything
& the ppl ard could support the person...
Both parties have diff. parts of roles to play..
But the Most impt role is the person involved as it generates the final decision~
hahas.. sounds lik a project leader to me..
If difficulty arises, ppl should raise & encountered them..
After all,
What's life without difficulties?~ ^^